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Unknown Soldiers | Remember their sacrifices and selflessness

April 18, 2014 

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    THIS WEEK IN THE CIVIL WAR

    Confederate ram at battle of Plymouth, N.C.

    Confederate forces, in a joint operation of ground troops and an ironclad ram CSS Albemarle, attacked the federal garrison at Plymouth, N.C. near the mouth of the Roanoke River on April 17, 1864.

    The Confederacy, 150 years ago in the Civil War, was weary of Union forces using the garrison as a springboard for raids into easternmost North Carolina.

    Thousands of Confederate troops pressed toward the outnumbered Union fighters holding the fort at Plymouth. By April 18, fierce shelling had erupted, threatening U.S. warships along the river.

    On April 19, 1864, the Albemarle reached the area and promptly sank one Union ship and badly damaged another, driving away other U.S. warships defending the garrison.

    A heavy Confederate bombardment ultimately forced the federal garrison to surrender on April 20, 1864.

    Flush with victory, the Confederacy would hold the area until late 1864 when it returned to federal control for the rest of the war.

Before leaving for his fifth deployment to Iraq, Master Sgt. Robert Horrigan, who had been planning to retire from the U.S. Army, told his commanding officer that “if you’re going, I’m going with you.”

Horrigan, 40, wound up making the ultimate sacrifice during that deployment.

After Staff Sgt. Travis Mills lost his arms and legs in Afghanistan, he lay in his hospital bed worrying about his fellow soldiers still in harm’s way. Every day, he would have his wife send messages to his Army brothers to make sure they were safe.

Mills, now 27, has since become a nationally recognizable face of America’s wounded warriors.

When 1st Lt. Travis Manion was asked why he had to return a second time to the hellish streets of Fallujah, Iraq, he told his brother-in-law that if he didn’t go, a Marine with less experience would be sent in his place.

“If not me, then who?” Manion, 26, said five months before he was killed in action.

Our nation is consumed with the selfie, which dominates social media and has been embraced by many media figures, celebrities and even some prominent politicians. There is nothing wrong with posting fun pictures, but the selfie fad underscores an increasing tendency to celebrate ourselves.

In this column space, you read about heroes like Horrigan, Mills and Manion, who placed service above self while asking for nothing in return. These brave men and women do not seek the spotlight and, in many cases, are uncomfortable if the spotlight finds them.

While many television stations, newspapers and websites focus on the selfie, this column is a place to read about the “unselfie” — an act of unselfishness. In my mind, these are the moments that should also saturate social media, especially when it comes to the Facebook, Twitter and Instagram accounts of national leaders.

Master Sgt. Jennifer Loredo was serving in Afghanistan when her husband, Staff Sgt. Eddie Loredo, 34, was killed in a different part of the country. When I spoke with Jennifer Loredo, 37, she was leading the Army’s Master Resilience Training program to help other military families cope with tragedy.

Nobody would have looked down on Jennifer if she had left the military to grieve her husband and focus solely on caring for their children. Instead, she put others above herself.

“I wanted to make (Eddie) proud and my kids proud, too,” she said.

First Lt. Tom Martin’s first application to the U.S. Military Academy at West Point was rejected. He joined the Army anyway and eventually gained acceptance to the storied institution.

“He had a true conviction for what was right,” his mother, Candy Martin, said.

The respected Army officer could have done anything he wanted with his life before he was killed in action at age 27. Instead of thinking that responding to 9/11 was someone else’s job, Martin took it upon himself to protect America.

“I gotta go rid the world of evil,” he often said.

Sgt. Devin Snyder was a popular, athletic high school track star who loved the color pink. But when high school was over, she enlisted in the Army.

“She was very strong-willed,” Snyder’s father, Ed, told me. “She knew what she wanted.”

Devin was devastated when she saw fellow soldiers injured in an enemy roadside bomb attack in Afghanistan. But while agonizing for her wounded friends, she enthusiastically suited up for another mission, during which she was killed at age 20.

After Devin made the ultimate sacrifice, friends painted an American flag with her smiling face on a rock in upstate New York. Soon after a local fraternity was criticized for painting over the memorial, it issued a statement.

“In a brief moment of self-gratification, we thought of no one else but ourselves, and for that we were wrong,” the statement, printed by Time Warner Cable News Rochester, read in part.

The fraternity’s epiphany is instructive, because of the frequency of Americans placing self above all else. Whenever I’m guilty of becoming consumed with my own interests, my weekly conversations with these heroes and their families serve as dramatic wake-up calls.

The selfie is fun. The “unselfie” is what truly matters.

Tom Sileo is a syndicated columnist. His Unknown Soldiers columns are distributed by Creators Syndicate and appear in the Centre Daily Times on Fridays. Readers may follow his posts on Facebook and his blog at www.unknownsoldiersblog.com.

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