My brother and his wife, who live in Ohio, recently traveled out of town with two of their three children for a weekend baseball tournament. They left their high school senior at home, and upon returning, learned that she had had a party, evidently with alcohol present.
My brother and sister-in-law rightly saw this as a serious violation of their trust, in general, and more specifically, a violation of their home. Their response was clear and firm: her graduation party the next weekend was cancelled, with some gifts returned and apologies/explanations made to some invitees; and grounding from friends, car, TV, and phone for two weeks.
My niece responded well, lesson learned. And my three sons, who greatly respect and like their uncle, seemed to grasp the seriousness of the issue, and the consequences to their cousin.
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